Open the actual notice before deciding what to send

  1. Open the provider’s site directly and locate the transaction. Match its order ID to the dispute reference; check that the notification is genuine.
  2. Save the exact reason: non-receipt, an unrecognised payment, a missing refund and a condition complaint require different answers.
  3. Copy the response deadline, including any time and time zone. Record the notification date separately; do not guess a midnight cutoff.
  4. Record the disputed amount and currency, whether it is the full order or part of it, and whether funds are held or already debited.
  5. Check for a previous refund, replacement or overlapping marketplace case. Save each reference and current status.
  6. Locate the response task and accepted evidence fields. A saved draft or message to the buyer may leave the formal task outstanding.

A funds hold is a financial status, not a decision that the buyer is right. A carrier investigation is an evidence-gathering step, not permission to miss the payment response. If the deadline is unclear, ask the provider immediately and keep a record of its answer.

Which dispute process is actually running?

Use the notice heading and account task, rather than the buyer’s informal use of “chargeback”.
Notice / account taskWhat it meansWhere to act
Marketplace INR request or eBay Money Back GuaranteeThe buyer raised a marketplace delivery issue. It is not by itself an external card chargeback.Use the marketplace request. For an eBay INR, follow the existing seller INR guide.
Amazon A-to-z claimAn Amazon buyer-protection claim; do not relabel it as your own bank dispute.Use the seller A-to-z response route and the claim’s instructions.
eBay payment disputeThe buyer challenged payment through their payment institution; eBay provides the seller response route.Locate Requests and disputes in Seller Hub or the matching order.
PayPal dispute / claimA dispute is the Resolution Centre conversation; escalation to a claim asks PayPal to decide.Check the stage and requested action in the Resolution Centre.
External card chargeback through PayPalThe buyer went to the card issuer. PayPal can gather the seller’s evidence; the issuer decides.Answer the chargeback task in PayPal, not merely the older buyer conversation.
Direct-store processor noticeStripe or another processor may show an inquiry or a formal dispute.Check the named processor, stage, reason and response portal. Do not assume every notice is a chargeback.

Provider distinctions: eBay UK — handling payment disputes; PayPal UK — dispute versus claim; PayPal UK — external card-issuer chargebacks; Stripe — respond to disputes.

If the notice is actually about damage or description, use the condition-dispute guide. Delivery evidence alone does not answer whether the goods matched the sale.

Build the evidence chain from order to destination

Make a short dated timeline linking this sale, this parcel and the claimed delivery. Preserve original records and use readable copies in the portal. These are practical evidence checks; the provider’s specific request determines what must be submitted.

Record both what you have and what remains unconfirmed. A label purchase is different from carrier acceptance.
EvidenceUseful connectionLimitation / gap
Order and payment recordOrder ID, transaction ID, goods, amount and checkout delivery address.Check split shipments and whether the disputed amount covers only one parcel.
Dispatch and acceptanceTracking number, label, posting receipt, collection manifest or first carrier acceptance scan.A generated tracking number does not show that the carrier received the parcel.
Tracking historyCarrier, acceptance date, delivery date and current status, saved with the lookup date.In-transit or delivery-attempt scans do not establish completed delivery.
Destination and delivery locationCompare the carrier’s destination with the transaction address; identify a door, reception, neighbour, safe place or collection point.A matching town or postcode may leave a precise-location question unresolved. Explain what the record actually shows.
Photo, signature and recipientOrder-linked delivery photo, signature record, recipient name or collection confirmation where applicable.A photo of an unidentified doorstep or an unfamiliar signature needs context; neither proves intent.
Messages and investigationBuyer’s report, any acknowledgement of receipt and the carrier’s written findings/reference.A buyer asking where the parcel is is not an admission of delivery. An open investigation is not a confirmed result.

For an own-store response, Stripe’s reason-specific guidance distinguishes product-not-received evidence from other categories. Tie documents to the stated reason rather than uploading a history of unrelated orders. If tracking is marked delivered, audit its destination and proof of delivery before treating it as conclusive.

Decision table: what should you do next?

Work through these checks before accepting or challenging. “Unknown” is a fact to resolve, not a reason to invent evidence.
QuestionYesNo / unclear
Is the deadline confirmed?Plan submission before that cutoff; retain confirmation.Ask the provider now. Do not assume a general chargeback period gives you extra response time.
Does tracking show delivered?Check destination, date, location and provider requirements next.Describe the current scan accurately, obtain carrier findings and assess whether accepting the dispute is appropriate. Do not claim delivery.
Does delivery evidence match the transaction?Explain the order-to-parcel-to-address connection with attachments.Separate a known mismatch from missing data. Ask the carrier to confirm or correct the record.
Was another marketplace case open?Save its status and decision; check the provider rules below before using it.Record that no parallel case is known; recheck recent account messages.
Is this an external card chargeback?Submit through the named payment route; distinguish contesting the issuer claim from seller protection.Use the actual marketplace or PayPal dispute/claim task.
Has a refund already completed?Supply the date, amount, transaction reference and status to the reviewer.Check before arranging a new refund or replacement; confirm how it interacts with the active dispute.

If the carrier confirms loss or misdelivery, include that finding rather than continuing to rely on an old delivered badge. Decide your response using the known facts and live options. Accepting may be the appropriate choice when the complaint is supported; unsupported confidence is not useful evidence.

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eBay, PayPal and your own store need different responses

eBay UK: payment dispute and protection are separate

eBay’s handling guide directs sellers to accept or challenge within 5 calendar days after receiving the dispute notification. Use the displayed notice cutoff as your working deadline. Its payment-dispute route is separate from an ordinary marketplace INR response.

Protection is conditional; check the payment-dispute protection policy and the detailed eBay seller payment-dispute guide. The payment institution decides the dispute. eBay’s assessment of whether it will seek reimbursement from you is a separate question.

PayPal UK: internal INR versus external chargeback

PayPal’s external INR guidance confirms that Seller Protection excludes card-issuer INR chargebacks. PayPal can still pass your response to the issuer. Tracking does not restore excluded protection.

An internal PayPal INR claim may qualify under the UK Seller Protection requirements, including transaction-address delivery proof and timely responses. Eligibility is not automatic. PayPal’s 20-day dispute-to-claim escalation period runs from opening the dispute; it is not a universal seller evidence deadline or the response window for an external chargeback. Follow each information request.

Direct store: read the processor’s own task

For Stripe or another processor, record the merchant account, disputed payment and portal deadline. Stripe’s response documentation explains that an inquiry can later become a formal dispute requiring another response. Never substitute an old inquiry reply for the current task.

There is no universal seller chargeback response deadline. Do not copy a buyer’s filing window, a provider’s usual resolution time or another platform’s five-day rule into your own notice.

What if a marketplace case or refund already exists?

Use a small reconciliation record: process, reference, current status, amount, refund reference and next task. Keep the original marketplace decision even when that workflow closes. A previous seller-favourable outcome is useful context, not a guarantee against a later payment dispute.

eBay says a payment dispute closes open cancellations, INR reports, returns and Money Back Guarantee cases for the same transaction. Answer the payment dispute and preserve the older evidence. Do not keep trying to submit in a closed INR request.

For PayPal, Amazon A-to-z or another buyer-protection route, confirm the actual status and coordination instructions. Do not apply eBay’s closure rule to a different platform. A buyer message saying “I closed it” is not portal confirmation.

If a refund was already made, show its completed status and exact amount. Identify a pending refund as pending and a partial refund as partial. Ask the provider how to reconcile it before paying again. Keep a replacement shipment separate from the original tracking so the reviewer can see which parcel is being discussed.

Prepare a concise response, then save the submission

Start with the dispute reference and reason, then explain the relevant facts in date order. Name each attachment and the point it supports. A reviewer should not have to infer which tracking number belongs to which item.

Re: [dispute reference], item not received. Order [order ID] was dispatched on [date] under [carrier / tracking]. The attached acceptance record links that parcel to this order. Current tracking shows [exact status] on [date]. The delivery record shows [destination / location]; its connection to the transaction address is [confirmed facts or unresolved gap]. [Refund / parallel case status, with references.] Please assess the attached records against this dispute’s requirements.

Delete placeholders and any statement you cannot support. Do not label the buyer dishonest because their account conflicts with tracking. State the conflict and the investigation findings neutrally.

Check attachment limits, legibility and submission status. Save the submitted text, files, date and confirmation. A support chat asking for help does not itself confirm an extension or completed response.

After submission: updates, adverse decisions and carrier claims

Watch for evidence requests and record each new deadline. A carrier correction, buyer acknowledgement, refund or revised dispute reason can change the response. Explain what changed and retain the earlier record rather than silently replacing it.

If the decision goes against you, separate the issuer’s reason, any seller-protection refusal and the actual debit. Ask the provider which review route remains available and what evidence it permits. The detailed eBay payment-dispute guide explains the distinct protection-review route; an ordinary eBay INR appeal addresses a different decision.

A carrier claim may run separately if there is a supported delivery failure and you are entitled under the booked service to claim. Check the label provider and service terms, retain the investigation and value evidence, and disclose related refunds or recoveries where requested. A chargeback does not itself establish carrier liability. If a claim was refused, use the courier-claim refusal guide.

ParcelClaim uses the information you supply. It does not retrieve provider data automatically, submit disputes automatically or contact banks/card issuers. You check the notice, review the prepared response and submit it yourself. No protection, reimbursement or dispute outcome is guaranteed.

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Sources & policy review

Policy checked: . ParcelClaim Research Team checked the following first-party material. eBay and PayPal links use UK guidance; Stripe documentation describes its processor workflow. Read the live notice and terms applicable to your transaction.

  1. eBay UK — handling payment disputes
  2. eBay UK — payment dispute seller protections
  3. PayPal UK — dispute versus claim
  4. PayPal UK — external card-issuer chargebacks
  5. PayPal UK — external INR chargeback protection exclusion
  6. PayPal UK — Seller Protection, updated 12 October 2026
  7. Stripe — respond to disputes
  8. Stripe — reason-specific evidence categories

Evidence tables and response examples are practical editorial tools, not universal provider rules. Account eligibility, checkout market, shipping programme, dispute reason and case stage can change the result. No guaranteed outcome is implied. ParcelClaim is independent of the providers named here.